Friday, November 14, 2008

National Day of Listening.

Did you know that the 28th of November will be the first National Day of Listening in this country?

Amazing what you hear when you are a fan of public radio.... It is one of the pleasures in life for me, as I can listen whilst I do more mundane tasks like cleaning, laundry, driving and picking up the house.
For months now I have been listening to early morning snippets from a non-profit organization called "Story Corps". They have made tens of thousands of oral recordings of Americans of all shapes and sizes, ages and creeds. A conversation is like a person's handwriting. It is as if we have a personal window into the essence of the people when we hear their conversations with each other. This year after Thanksgiving, they are encouraging Americans to interview a loved one, neighbor, relative, regular at a soup kitchen, or anyone they care about.
Sit down, ask someone about their life and record it for posterity. It is amazing what you may hear when you take the time to listen.

Media dips into its bag of tricks every day to grab our attention. The hysterical furor and tone of newscasts, interviews and constant" breaking news" permeates our daily lives. Every single event, no matter how trivial or important is given a dramatic, serious weight in the multi-media information IV we attach ourselves to every day. We no longer hear conversations between people. We are used to being spoken at, not spoken to or listening to. We can pick to only hear the people and views we agree with and support. We ignore the ordinary or familiar, the stories of the elderly, preferring high drama.

Story Corps is attempting to change this a little. It is a simple method whereby two people have a conversation, usually about something small but significant to them, which is recorded and filed in the American Folk Life Center at the Library of Congress for future generations. It is an audio preservation of now.

From Story Corps, I have heard the voices of the elderly, the gentle humor and patient love they have for each other clear and strong in their wavering voices. Memories of times long gone; seemingly archaic in our rapidly changing world where technology completely reinvents itself every ten years.
The audio nature of the interaction lets us hear those inaudible things we all know so well. An undemonstrative middle-aged man speaking to his old grandmother about his childhood. She raised him in hard times, and she remembers these years fondly but pragmatically. He remembers the love and opportunity for a young boy to grow into something big, but he cannot say it in fancy words. He thanks her in an awkward, sincere manner. She responds with restrained gratitude for the acknowledgment. Their love for each other is loud and clear in the air between their sparse words. A real relationship we can all understand.

A gay brother talks to his younger sibling about standing up for himself when attacked as a young man. He is pained by the memory, but seems genuinely surprised when his brother tells him calmly he always admired his convictions. Two very different men appreciating each other, without fanfare. A special moment preserved for all to experience. A graceful glimpse of humanity.
Two sisters chuckling uncontrollably at the memory of dance parties during the Great Depression. Two war veterans, a dad and a son; one with ghosts from Vietnam, the other with demons from Iraq. These are the people we walk past in the grocery store every day.

Take a break from your on-line news feed and consider the mundane. It will certainly lift your spirits.

www.storycorps.net