Sunday, June 21, 2009

Ode to Glamour.

Today I considered the glamour of those I chose.

Family -- the unchosen -- sometimes spark anger, disappointment, frustrations, feelings of being taken for granted. So in counteraction -- here, my friends --you all are at your finest, in no particular order:

Chloe, in shorts and full make-up, talking about her dance-hall days in the 1940s; Sara's soft grey bob, Southern Belle accent and gold lame sneakers; Nandini's wrists encircled in fine gold Indian jewelery when her hands are still; Courtney in a high ponytail mood; Nicky in siren red and smiling; Reena's hair falling over her face; Mike in shorts and an apron, cooking for a crowd, olive oil in hand. Janine H. smelling of Chapstick and sunshine the full promise of summer made tangible on her golden legs. Nolan's peachy country girl skin misted in a cloud of Camel smoke inhaled like Marlene Dietrich. My two tiny Jewish friends -- Lynda, spiritual and serene yet drinks Jack Daniels like a cowboy; Sharyn spunky and rock-and roll, devastating in a prim, white blouse. Kim, Miami beach babe, self-depracating laugh at herself. Erna, always December 31,1999 at any restaurant.


Tracy's bubbly laugh that sucks you into her joy, Paula's pretty feet, her toenails painted. Maggie W, genuinely shocked and enjoying it. Sune, with her emails full of country values and observations in a big City. Zoyon, the person most comfortable with silence I have ever known. Betsy peering over those wicked reading glasses, Karen's tone and expression when relaying tiny details we all miss in children.

Liz and everything about the ocean; David in Ramon mode; Fusun telling a story at the dinner table, lilting and gentle. Wilhelm, one of the few whose every aspect of life screams foreign movie-like glamour. Maggie M. more beautiful in real life than in those fashion magazines. Ben explaining performance art; Celia's droll take on reality, and Sam, an effervescent fizz and an expert at friendship.

I know I missed some of you. Inspiring all, I say.

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